Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Crazy May or Mee

I have been feeling de-motivated for the last few months. Blame on the weather, missing family, being unwell or having troublesome three year old toddler at home or even the fact this new place is yet to feel like home.  Every from 6am till 8pm feels like being on the the 9 o'clock newshour with Arnab Gosawmi adding a little diva twist getting bombarded with questions.  

Finally I have reached a stage, I feel desperate need for a break where there no sun, no extreme winters, beach, rain n NO FAMILY... does such place exist? Somebody suggested to go off to Utopia. Wonder where this place is?


Sometimes it feels, I am not good enough as a mum, wife and the career has gone for a complete toss. Laziness is slowly gripping me like a warm blanket. And the lets not forget about our peculiar gender problems PMSing. Apart from the normal womanly abnormalities, I also came down with UTI. The problem is not a big issue apart from the pain. But what is most irritating is everyone asking me to drink water and cranberry juice. If I seriously took everyone’s advice we might run short of drinking water in Muscat.


Leaving all that aside my parents we here for 10 days. Felt like a bliss! I have been away from home for little over 10 years now and I crave for them to stay with us. Credit really goes to my mother for making me fat, thanks to all moong dal halwa, namak paare, not to forget the other scrumptious food that I had been gobbling down. 

But then I thought to myself - we all have are fat days ... and  days like these I think about eating only salads.... There's another perspective on salad..





Eventually the moral of the story as my husband would conclude – “There are no solutions to my problems.” Actually there is Ice-cream but it goes straight to the BUM and then fat days will be back all over again.  

24 comments:

  1. Hey Sangeeta, beautifully written. For sure straight from the heart.

    Life surely has been a roller coaster for you and I can fully understand how difficult it is to stay away from home and go through all. But at the end you got the right spirit in you.

    You are the one who looks beautiful even on the hospital bad so just do not worry about getting fat. As you are not. You are awesome and beautiful.

    You got the most loveable parents who visit you often, which is awesome, trust me my parents never visited me all 8 to 9 years when I was away so you are Blessed.

    I will do a sin would advise you here that you start sharing more with someone whom you can share without being judged, just go on and on and it will do wonders for you.

    Remember you are beautiful and awesome

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    1. Awwie Amit thank you so much ... you have always been really kind ... Thanks a bunch for perking me up :) cheers !!!

      You know I am actually grinning reading this lovely note ..

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  2. Hi Sangeeta, liked going through your 'woes'. We all have them sometime or the other. But atleast we bloggers are lucky and get to vent it out in public. I did just that for the whole of last month as I was doing an extremely demanding course that made me scream and shout and beg for sympathy on my FB page. It worked wonders when i would get likes and the comments soothed my pains even on the dullest of days. So hang on there and the tide will soon pass over.

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    1. Awe mehroo ... big hugs coming to you too love ... Thank you so much for all the love.. xoxo

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  3. Sangeeta, big hugs coming you way! I can imagine how you must feel. It can be too overwhelming at times. I hope this feeling comes and goes quickly and you feel better with time :)

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    1. Thankie shilaja.... Sometimes all we need is a little love ... I am still recovering ... will put a celebratory post on it then ;)

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  4. Sangeeta, take care. Sometimes, there can be too much on our plates that overwhelms us. I hope you start feeling better soon.

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    1. Thanks Rachna.... my frustration comes from the fact that I have everything but except parents around us to love n calm .. my mother in law is coming on the 8th hope to get pampered

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  5. Sometimes,I wish too that Utopia did exist. At least we, bloggers have a place to vent out our feelings. Take care.

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  6. all i can say is take care and this too shall pass..

    and from experience i ca nsay one thing there is no such place other than HOME .. where you can find all that you want .. :) take care

    Bikram

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    1. Thanks bikram... For the very encouraging words .. yup there's no place like home ... but sometimes one must breakaway from routine ;)

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  7. Welcome back to blogosphere!!!

    www.volatilespirits.com

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  8. Aw, hope you feel better soon...but i actually enjoyed reading this! You have such a great sense of humor! Keep writing! :)

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    1. I am better still on IV shots for the next few days .... thank you for stopping and leaving such a lovely note.. :D

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  9. Life is complicated for sure. Anywhere you are, the continuous demands on our money, time, health and energy levels seems to be just getting bigger :) Best wishes to you and you are an awesome everything! There, I said it for you :) hope that brought a smile on your face. I loved your cute post.

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    1. Of course Poornima yes it has surely put a smile on my face ... thanks girl :D

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  10. Awww! So sweet, Sangeeta :)
    We all have such phases. Give it some time & soon you'll be singing 'ALL IS WELL!'
    Hope you adjust in the new place and get back to your former self. Best wishes!
    Take care, dear.

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    1. Yup Anita ... ma came and mum-in-law came feeling much better and actually more at home now :D

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  11. Such a cute post.We all have such phases in life when things slow down and you feel you are in a dump.I can only tell you that this too shall pass.Yeah and we ladies have so many more problems to face and battle.

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    1. Yeah you are right ... just was a phase it over and thank god it is ... thanks for stopping by the blog :D

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  12. I hope June has turned out differently for you.

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    1. Yup Mridula - it's birthday month hope the hubby reads this cue ... :D

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